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writes:Ok....... I need some help... I am a gay guy and have started taklking to this guy online, who I am really interested in, but theirs a couple of issues.To get on these websites I've lied about my age, I'm 17 but I say I'm 18 to get on these websites, I know some people will have issues with that, this guy has asked me out, but to go to a club, and I've never tried to get in underage, I really need to tell him my age, but I am really interested in him, and I presume he will go off me if he finds out I'm only 17 and cant go out with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, xxjameswxx +, writes (17 January 2011):
 Honesty is the best policy!
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reader, iloveyou2 +, writes (16 January 2011):
 too be honest its only a year, a year shouldnt matter if he really likes you
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 Tell him the truth. The age difference is probably really small it's just that you can't go to a club yet. Plus a club is a terrible spot for a first date.
I'm sure he will appreciate your honesty with him.
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reader, Fabulosa  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 You should tell him. He has the right to choose if he wants to be with a 17 year old. Anyways its only one year if you explain it to him the way you explained it here I doubt he'll have any problem. Good luck!
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reader, Hyper hippo 123 +, writes (16 January 2011):
 I don't think the age gap is the big issue here. It is only i year between you, I'm 17 too and i would date guys older or younger than me (as long as the age gap wasn't too big of a difference) They say honesty is the best policy. Go for it! If you get into a relationship with this person you'll have to tell him the truth about your age eventually. Better sooner than later. Good luck. :)
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (15 January 2011):
I don't see the problem here. What difference does a year make? Find another place to meet. Simple.
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