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36-40,
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writes: Hi Cupids I need help.... I've been dating a wonderful guy, Pete, for 9 months whom I trust and love deeply. We have only ever kissed. I have been at an all girls boarding school for my entire education and have therefore have had virtually no communication or contat with men. Pete who I am currently dating is my first boyfriend and while my family strictly believe in no sex before marriage i disagree i don't follow my religion like my parents do. Anyway I'm ready to take the next step with Pete and have sexual intercourse with him the only thing is i have no idea how to do it. I've never really seen it in films or tv so i'm fairly clueless. I don't want to go rent a porno just to figure it out and my friends follow the same rules as my parents so could any cupids out there give me some advice for my special night.from a one clueless cupid to a cluey... Annabeth.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (18 December 2006):
 i think the first thing before making any moves on your boyfriend, u guys need to discuss the sex issue first find out how he feels about it, if he wants to do it sooner or rather wait this is important for u guys as an open communication is what u both need. if he is feeling that he is ready then u can tell him u are ready as well and u guys can decide on a date to make it special as ur first night.
how its done dont worry about it as it all comes natural. but if he says he wants to wait u can decide to wait for him or move on the main thing here is that u wd have made it clear what u both want in a relationship. but dont make sex a big deal if he is not keen in the idea bcos for u to enjoy it u need someone who adores u as well otherwise it will just be sex and i dont think u want to remember it that empty and that emptiness will stay with u forever. remember relationships are God given gifts unfortunately they dont come with manuals, so trust your insticts and all shall be well. good luck
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