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writes:I'm 2 months pregnant and I was wondering if there are any precautions my husband and I should consider during our "private time". My obgyn said everything looks normal for now but just curious of anything we should avoid? Reply to this Question
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reader, Brekel66 +, writes (24 November 2012):
Brekel66 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNot planning anything too outrageous nothing the average 19 and 24 year old couple can't imagine lol.
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reader, daletom +, writes (24 November 2012):
Congratulations! Having and raising children is one of the biggest statements of faith you can make.
"So_Very_Confused" gave the best answer to your question.
In general, sex is quite OK during pregnancy. If there was any obvious reason to abstain your doctor should have mentioned it, but make it a point to ask specifically at your earliest convenience. (Call the doctor's office next week if your next appointment is a ways off. Or write the question out on paper and hand it to the doctor if you're too embarrassed to ask out loud. The doctor knows you're married, and that sex is a significant part of marriage especially at your age, so it's not like you're giving away any deep secrets.)
My wife and I continued our usual sex pattern throughout 4 pregnancies, up to about 24 hours before she started labor, with the full knowledge and approval of her doctors. She is one of those women who get especially horny when they're pregnant, which was fine with me because I find pregnant women generally attractive and sexually desirable - and especially because she was carrying OUR child. Toward the end we decreased some of the vigor in our couplings and used different positions (spoons is awesome!).
This question is asked fairly often. One recent discussion is "Questions about pregnancy" at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/questions-about-pregnancy45.html
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 November 2012):
 Sweetie,
this is a medical question best left for doctors.
but if you are not planning anything outrageous you should be fine...
first rule: if it HURTS at all(even minor discomfort STOP)
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