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41-50,
*ilmzirisheyes
writes:Hoping someone can help me! I have been with my fiance for two and half years, and for the past 2 years he has had some serious medical problems through which I stood by his side. The problem is that he has had two seperate instances where he was caught having very intimate conversations with other women online. Needless to say my trust in him is destroyed, and I have asked him to leave on several occasions and he won't. He states that he would have "no where to go" if I kicked him out, but I'm tired of paying all his bills when he is perfectly capable of getting a job and supporting himself.... What do I do?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 February 2007):
 Does he really have nowhere to go? If so then give him a set time to get a job and move out and mean it. Stop paying his bills immediately that may give him even more incentive.
If he does have friends or family he can move in with, show him the door today and change the locks.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (18 February 2007):
 You tell him that he has 3 months to find himself a job and start paying his own bills, because after that you'll be kicking him out and changing the lock on the door.
Women are people, not free homes for lazy boys.
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