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I'm paranoid that he is not ready for a committed relationship

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Question - (19 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2009)
A age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I was seeing this man named "Ted", Jan. through Mar. Things just ended because he said he couldnt give himself to anyone just yet because he was going through a divorce. He was so exciting and fun. In April I started seeing a man named "Jim". Jim is more dependable and treats me well. I had a hard time getting over Ted. But I decided to leave him alone and try to move on. Well Ted contacted me again. Now he says he's ready to move on with his life. What should I do. Give him a chance or stick with Jim? I know I'm in love with Ted but dont know if I can go through the pain again. Or is this a sign of a player? Help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009):

honey im only 17 but stay with jim. if ted wouldnt give it up to you the first time then thats his lost not yours. so stay with jim

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