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I'm paranoid about the fact that her best friend is a guy...

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Question - (27 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2007)
A male Canada age 30-35, *m81690 writes:

I'm wondering if I have cause for concern here...

I think I'm going to be starting a relationship with a girl soon (we hooked up, and we talk to each other daily, so things seem to be going pretty good) but I'm paranoid by the fact her best friend is a guy.

Maybe I am just being paranoid, she makes it sound as if they're both best friends and nothing more, but she tells me they plan on going on a vacation with each other, and they always hang out alone with each other.

I don't want to just come right out and ask if they're more than friends since we arn't in a relationship at the moment, but I'm looking for some more opinions on this.

Ladies do you think this is just a legit friendship with no added benefits? I'd like to get a good idea whether or not they're more than just friends before I go into a relationship, it'd save me some heartache.

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntOf course they can just be best friends! Most of my best friends are girls and my best friend since I was 3 is a girl. Some girls I date can get jealous of this too, so you aren't alone, but you just have to trust her!

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