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I'm only 30 and I seem to have lost my libido!

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Question - (24 June 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2005)
A , *uchelle writes:

I am a 30 year old wife and mother of two, eldest 2.5 years and youngest 7 mths. I have lost all interest in sex. My husband goes out of his way to try to pleasure me and I can orgasim after a time but find I have lost my libido and don't really enjoy it, even though I want to.

Please help me get my mojo back...

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A reader, xox?xox +, writes (25 June 2005):

Have you tried experimenting with toys?

Most are extremely effective at stimulation and pleasure.

Trying new things may also excite you and heighten your libido, especially if you include your husband. If you can afford it, why not get the kids looked after for a few days and have a long weekend, whether it be Paris or Cornwall! A new environment normally increases libido and make everything feel more exciting.

Talk to your husband about this too, and see if he has any suggestions, im sure he'd be more than happy to try new things in bed! ps who says it has to be in bed!!

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