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I'm only 15 but I really like this married man who lives opposite me! What should I do?

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Question - (4 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ara311 writes:

Hi, my names Sara and im now 15 at school.

I really like this man who works at a supermarket but he also lives opposite me as well. It makes me feel stupid that i like him so much, especially when he is married and has kids but i dont know why i feel this much for him. Whenever i see him it makes me feel upset because it just reminds me that i cant be with him but i dont know weather to try and move on from it or just try to accept the fact that i like him and it the feelings i have for him will go eventually. I see him a lot which makes it worse for me. He sometimes come to the window and looks at me, whenever i go outside on the phone i see him look at me, I know that it might sound wrong but i really like him but dont know what to do.Any Help? Thankyou for any advice that may be given to me :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010):

Sara, Sara, Sara, please "try and move on from it or just try to accept the fact that [you] like him and ... the feelings [you] have for him will go eventually" as you grow further.

You know you have an infatuation for this man but that any relationship outside of him being your neighbour would be inappropriate. This includes babysitting should he ever ask it of you.

Develop some other friends with some other type of activities that take you out of your regular milieu.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (4 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntThink about what ur saying, ur 15 and still a CHILD he is a MAN married with children. Im going to say u lack a father figure in ur life. He will never have relations with u and if he does that is called a sex offender and he can go away for a long time. Find someone ur age

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A male reader, y007steph Hungary +, writes (4 August 2010):

In the US you can land him in prison.

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