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Im now 8 weeks pregnant, could it be the man I cheated with or my husbands?

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Question - (5 June 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I cheated for the first time the day after my period started. We had unprotected sex. Im now 8 weeks pregnant, could it be the man I cheated with or my husbands? Husband and I had sex 2x's the week I was to of conceived. The doctor states conception was April 19th. Please help!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007):

Why are you even asking this question? Of course it could be.

When a man and a woman have sex sometimes the woman gets pregnant.

Get an abortion or a paternity test or something. No stanger on the Internet is going to able to answer your quetion are they?

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A female reader, jaxwardle86 United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2007):

jaxwardle86 agony auntDoes your husband know about the affair by the way? because if not I would advise you to tell him. You may at the moment think it's fine I'll just tell him it's his but It can blow back right into your face again especially during heated arguments. You cannot rely on dates at all the only way to be sure is if you have a dna test. hope I've helped

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntI don't think anyone is going to be able to give you a definate answer on this one afraid your just going to have to wait until the baby is born and then have a paternity test.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007):

Well if you slept with another guy the day after your period started, then it couldn't possibly be his. And if you and your husband had sex twice while you were ovulating then it's more than likely his. But if you're really worried the only real way of knowing is waiting until the baby is born and convincing your husband to have a DNA test, unless you can tell by the baby's appearance. But going by what you've mentioned, I don't see how having sex the day after your period started could have gotten you pregnant so I'd assume it's your husband's. But you know, you could have saved yourself from all this worry by not having cheated in the first place.

[moderator correction: A women can become pregnant from having sex a day after her period.]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007):

If your info. is correct, it is most likely your husband's baby. But you should get a paternity test to find out for sure.

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