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I'm not the happy girl I used to be, how do I get that back?

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Question - (6 December 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2012)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hii..

im in relationship with my friend from past 2 years...

and after it many things happened in our life that v got frustrated with it.. i mean not with each other... but wat was happening with my own life and also his life..

he tries to be ok with me.... sometimes i reply with frustation of something else on him...

2 years back i was very jovial girl... wat ever friends used to tease... used to take it very easily and be very cool....

now if anybody says anything i get angry very soon.. and reply in unusual way....

i dont yell and all... but im not cool as b4..

how do i come back very jovial and easy going girl like b4....???????

and 1 more thing is my boy friend is beauty concious and im not.... i dont be much fashionable or porsh.. im very casual going... i do give importance to beauty but to certain extent.. dont know how can i cope up with him ...???( i know this is not a big thing to worry about but just want to know how can i cope up... i do get irritated if my friend says it should be like that this... i fel like y cant u say something else)..

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2012):

EbonyBlossom agony auntDo you or your boyfriend talk to each other about your problems? Keeping them inside isnt helping with your frustration. If you both spoke to each other about your problems so you knew you were there for each other, you might both be able to relax knowing you have someone to support you through tough times. That in turn might improve your relationship.

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