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writes:Ok so I've been in this relationship with this guy for about four months. However, I'm not ready for sex or oral so the only thing we do is like kiss and touch each other. Well the problem for me is that when I go try and give him a "hand job" I don't think I'm satisfying him. He doesn't have lube or anything so it's hard for my hands to run smoothly over him. What should I do? Is there any tips as to how to give him a good one? I would take any sugestions because I'm very inexperienced when it comes to all of this. And even he mentioned earlier that he seems that it's become a little one sided. Please help. Thank you.
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 I think my ex-girlfriend had the same kind of problem as you. When she did it to me, I didn't feel like I was getting a lot of pleasure out of it. I usually just helped along; I took her hand, and used it to rub myself however I liked, and soon I would get to a point where I could take my hand away and she could finish me off.
My advice would be; let your boyfriend guide you when you do it, he'll know what he likes, and if he loves you, he won't find it too much of a burden to help you pleasure him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): If you dont want to buy lube, cuz i know some ppl feel embarassed or whatever, you can use unscented baby oil... thats my lil trick when I want to blow my bf mind with a hand job! it can be really intense for him tho, so take it easy and make sure hes liking it!
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reader, MikeD3 +, writes (5 July 2007):
One thing you could do is get some lubricant. I know he doesn't have any, but it would make sense to get some if you are having that kind of problem. You also might try using the rolling action of the foreskin as a way to stimulate him. Or (perhaps the best idea,) you should ask him how he masturbates, and just do what he would do. He probably has a pretty good idea of what works well, so just ask him.
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