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I'm not happy but we have a child do I stay or leave?

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Question - (31 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

ok im going to make this as short as possible...me and my boyfriend have been arguing a whole lot lately and its getting to the point where im not sure if i want to be with him and dont get me wrong i know people argue and no ones perfect but i mean its getting bad where he saying things that hurt like hell and than later it might be oh well i was mad thats the only i said that but i believe you say what you really feel when your mad, now on top of that we havent had sex in i dont know how long and i dont never hear i love you anymore unless i say it to him and you can forget about hugs and kisses there's no affection at all, the only thing is we have a child together and i already had a daughter before him and i got together and she loves him and calls him dad. im at the point where im getting pushed further and further from him and yes we have talked plenty of times so that doesnt work...im just sick getting yelled at and blaming me for everything and on top i feel like you dont love me so why stay?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008):

Hi Girlfriend. I have been where you are and know axactly how that feels. I had been with my ex fiance for 10 yrs altogether. Have broken up now for 5 months. And believe me it is the best choice i ever made. We do have 2 kids together. But when he starts saying things that you never thaught could come from him it is time to let it go because should you hang on those mean things will get meaner and meaner and theres no health and hope in staying in that kind of relationship. Move on it will be difficult but if i did it with having 2 kids from him so can you. Guys can be really mean so get away while you still can.

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