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I'm not getting any pleasure from sex! Is it me or is it him?

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Question - (24 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, basically ive been with this gorgeous guy for 7 months and ive started having sex with him...it was both our first's and so it was really important to me. We have been doing it for 3 months now, but im still getting nothing out of it! Im not turned off by him, Im just simply not getting any pleasure!

Is it me, or is it him? I have no heart to tell him that im not getting anything....HELP??

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2010):

Neither. Like all women, you need to know about your own body and what you like before he can know what pleasures you. It's not a case of either you being wrong. It's a case that you both need to just spend time experimenting until you find what works for you. Spend time experimenting by yourself, and gently teach him what you learn.

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