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I'm not even sure he went out with me for any reason other than "rebound"...

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Question - (1 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I just broke up with my boyfriend today, for good reason. He likes my best friend, and his ex, and 2 other girls, and im sick of it. But now he totally hates me for breaking up with him.

I had my best friend (whos also his best friend) do it for me because he had a phone and i dont. I wasnt at home, i was at a friends house so I couldnt do it in person.

It was through a phone call, and then i talked to him (my boyfriend) to say sorry and tell him why and everything. He says its ok but he sounded really depressed.

We hadnt even been going out for that long. Like 2 weeks (but theres a lot of history to us..)

Anyway, it hurts even more because he didnt even try to convince me not to, or apologize. He just said 'its fine.'

I dont even think he liked me. he just went out with me as a rebound for his ex, I think.

Anyway, I dont know what to do... help?

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (1 November 2009):

Aunty BimBim agony auntI am NOT laughing at it only being a relationship of two weeks duration.

I am NOT laughing because you appear to be a little confused he didnt get upset when you broke up with him, via a friend.

I am NOT laughing, my mouth just puckers that way every now and then.

You are upset with him because he likes people, such as your best friend, and his ex girlfriends etc etc. I would have thought a boy who carries no grudges against his ex's would be a bit of a bonus.

THe site says you are between 18 and 21 years, are you sure?? sounds more like little kid stuff to me.

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