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I'm married so why do I desire other women?

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Question - (14 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

why do i desire other women even though im married? when i see a women i can't help but look up and down at her and then i think of her like crazy! Why do I do this?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (14 April 2009):

Honeypie agony auntYou can look as long as you don't act. Men and women don't STOP looking at a beautiful/handsome gall/guy just because they get married.

Now if you get "happy pants" every time you look at some pretty girl you need to learn a few things about self control.

However you might consider that the elevator look is kinda creepy.

PS when you look at your wife do you think of her like crazy? If not start looking closer :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

look, but can you control your urges.

do you undress women with your eyes, if you do, you are hungry for something.

i hope this hunger doesn't destroy you and your marriage.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

I've been married 20 years and I still look at other women. I love women of all shapes and sizes nut that doesn't mean I want to have sex with them. It's just natural. Don't worry about it.

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A female reader, Miami Ad-Vice United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

You're human and you can't help it if you find other women attractive, as long as you don't cheat on your wife then it's OK to look but don't touch!

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