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writes:I am a married man and recently I found my self attracted to this beautiful lady at my workplace. She knows I am married and is playing hard to get, but I really want her badly. Please help me convince this lady to love me
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2012): Dont do it! I did a similar thing a few years back and it backfired on me, The girl whom I was after at work, told others of our affair, I was humiliated, she ended up making a complete laughingstock out of me in front of the whole company at a Christmas party by admitting to the affair on stage with mic in hand in front of my wife!! I was RUINED!! I crawled out of there that night and was basically forced to resign my position because I could not face any of my co workers from the embarassment. On top of it I was the boss. I was never so humiliated in my life, so think twice and dont be caught with your pants down (on stage)like I was.
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reader, Franco +, writes (21 May 2012):
Franco is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, for all your answers. You helped me, I was just going to ruin my marriage for someone I barely know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2012): Leave her alone, you are married, I am a man who has been cheated on by someone like you chasing my wife, she gave in after 2 years, it all ended in a mess and the guy dumped her and ruined her life and mine.Go give your wife the attention she should be getting not someone else's wife.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2012): Go home and LOVE your wife instead.
Maybe the lovely lady at work is being nice because she wants to keep her job, not be3cause she wants to screw a horny married guy.
Shame on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2012): Maybe she really doesnt want you, concentrate on being a husband and quit chasing your co-worker.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2012): Here's a better idea....divorce your wife and let her find a man who respects the wedding vows people make when they get married and allow her to find a man who can be trusted and faithful to her....cause you are not it.
Then you can go chase after this women you are attracted to and if she's into you (and she probably isn't because she knows you are married and believe it or not, there are a lot of people who take that seriously, won't go there, and don't cheat to make themselves feel better and stroke their pathetic insecure ego).
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (18 May 2012):
Franco: You call it "playing hard to get;" I call it, "being smart."
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2012): Take this from a married woman who had a cheating hubby for 6 yrs. Three words for u. You disgust me.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 May 2012):
 She's not PLAYING hard to get... she's NOT interested because you are MARRIED.
just because I like ice cream does not mean I get to eat it all the time.
She's beautiful
she's attractive.
enjoy it as eye candy.
Why in the world do you think it's acceptable to have a little bit on the side when you are married?
Is your wife allowed a lover?
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reader, Read-the-signs  +, writes (18 May 2012):
No, she may be flirting as she feels it's safe because you are married. Look at your marriage and see why you feel the need to stray. Work on what you have instead of being distracted by another woman.
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