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*atsleeps
writes:im new.i do not know why im here in the first place.somehow, reading other ppl's problem made me want to let mine out here.i think i still love my ex after 5 years we had broken up. it was just a short sweet period of time when we were young. now he is working overseas and his job require him to fly here n there. we hardly contact ever since we had broken up. i dated someone else after that and doesnt end well. which i realised my ex was the one that suits in my empty puzzle all this while.my last rship was 2 years ago. not been dating eversince.funny thing is, im the one who always initiate online chat with my ex. im nervous, heart beating real fast.butterfiles in my stomach when waiting for his reply. however, we dont have much to talk yet i enjoy talking to him. i cant talk to him often as i do not want to make any steps further as i tend to mess things up!what should i do? im longing for him without him knowing and refraining myself from dating others.im silly..goshhhplease advice
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reader, catsleeps +, writes (23 October 2008):
catsleeps is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you those replies
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appreciates!
not much of updates of my situation at the mo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): I just wanted to say that I understand exactly where your at. I have an ex that I haven't been with in about 3 or 4 years and I really miss her. I don't not date other girls on purpose but someone pointed out to me that I subconsciencly don't allow myself to develop a serious relationship with a new girl because I'm not past my ex. They asked me if I thought that it was because I didn't have a feeling of closure with my ex or was it because I was still in love with her? I don't know if this will help but don't feel alone in your predicament. That should give you some comfort.
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reader, Metroncho  +, writes (17 October 2008):
It seems to me that you need to move on. I'd suggest you to try to focus more on your personal goals and face the possibility (I guess more than that) that he is no longer going to be your man. I know what you feel when you describe your heart beating and nervousness, it means you still are vulnerable when it comes to him. but, hey! be confident and be open to other people too!
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