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*crazygirl08x
writes:A few months ago I decided to give up on guys. But it feels like just about everyone has a boyfriend/girlfriend. I'm lonely and want something different in my life, to feel good again and have someone to care about. How do I get back on the dating scene? I'm only 18, so it's kinda difficult for me.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Relationships often come and go; I bet that this time next year, half the 18/19 year olds you know, won't be with their boyfirend by then! We are all single at different times and meet somebody great at different times.
I think the key is not to drift along with somebody whom you don't have strong feelings for out of fear of being single.
It's often easy to meet somebody at a party or pub or nightclub. I think it just takes time to meet somebody who is decent and your type that's all.
For my 21st, I had a night out to a nightclub wearing an "I'm 21" bade. Believe it or not I met a great guy. I didn't know it at the time that I would marry him and still be together! So things can happen at a time when you don't expect! I think you can meet somebody when you are just having fun, and not particularly looking or expecting. Life is full of surprises, so take it as it comes for now.
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reader, xxInItForLovexx  +, writes (15 April 2009):
heyy,sounds like me I dont want to be alone anymoreI think you shouldnt date because you dont wanna be alone I have this great quote I try to live by "Love should be irresistable,like a drug.something you cant help, like breathing.just try that and if it doesnt work how about online dating, or work friends or maybe go out clubbing.hope this helps a tad,feel free to pm me
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