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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 yrs and we have a beautiful 13 month old daughter together. All of my family lives across country so I try to go and visit a few times a year, he has yet to ever come with me. He always seems excited for our daughter and I to leave, I don't think he is cheating, I know he just likes to be alone, play video games etc. I am just starting to wonder if maybe he is losing interest in me. We have sex maybe 1x a week, he doesn't really seem to take my feelings into consideration, like tonight, I am sick and also leaving across country for 16 days with our daughter on Monday am and he is out with friends playing poker! I would think he could have hung out at home with his family since he will have 16 days to do whatever he would like. Am I taking this the wrong way? I feel really hurt and he doesn't care as much as I do. I have tried talking to him and he says "he loves me, I am his best friend etc" But his actions seem like he isn't physically attracted to me, he will stay up all night playing vids and never come to sleep with me. Sorry I am frustrated and not sure what to do and on top of it I think I may be pregnant (I am on birth control, taking it correctly, but I guess things happen) Any advice would be appreciated! Sometimes it's nice to hear the opinions of people not in the situation and not knowing the people involved. Thank you
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reader, HayLay  +, writes (28 October 2010):
WEll dear, I think that you should talk to him about this. Not just talk while he is sitting and doing something. do something like this:
-wait for him to be bored or just doing nothing.
-take him into a quiet room and look into his eyes.
-tell him that something is bothering you.
-tell him that you really need to talk to him.
This will get his attention. and just let it all out, everything that you have said here, say it to him. let him know just how it is affecting you. I'm afraid that is all advice i can give not knowing you or him. Hope this works out.
XOXO
HayLay
P.S. remember to stay calm while telling him this, if you get angry he is more likely to get annoyed or just shrug it off.
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