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writes:I've been dating this guy for 8 months. We have gotten closer as the months went by. He used to phone me regularly and we would spend most weekends together unless he has to work. We got on so well, we would laugh, chat for hours. He even told me that he feels I'm 'The one' and we have spoken about marriage and our goals for the future. We both wanted to settle down and get married. Towards the end of August, we went away together for a weekend mainly to attend his Friends wedding. We got alot closer during this time. He would hold me and kiss me and tell me how much i mean to him. But since we've come back, He has had so many problems at work and has had to work most weekends that he hardly has time to see me anymore. He also doesn't phone me as often as he used to and i find that I'm the one phoning him most of the time. The thing is when i do phone him, we still have good conversation like before and he has given me no indication that he wants to end things. But because I Hardly see him or hear from him now , i'm just not sure where I stand in this relationship. I love him very much and am hoping he still feels the same way about me. I want to talk to him about it but am not sure how to bring up the subject. And also is it better to speak to him in person than on the phone? The problem is he's always busy. Any advise out there will be greatly appreciated.Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): I'm only 14 so I don't really know but my my viewpoint...i think you should go and sit down with him amd talk. It's important to stay communicated. Also, if you guys talked about serious marrige than he probably loves you alot. He could have gooten used to you calling him and very easily can forget to call you, being so distracted with work. Strength the relationship and you should be fine(:
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 I think it would be best to say it to his face if you can, just be bluntly honest with him, tell him how happy you are with him but recently you have felt that he hasnt spent much time with you, tell him you understand he has to work and is probably under some stress but that he doesnt ring you that much anymore and that you just feel a bit scared that he might not feel as close to you anymore as he was, and see what he has to say. I wish you all the best.
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