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writes: i am 17 years old and there is a boy the same age as me at school and i really really like him. I am just starting to get to know him properly, by talking to him more face to face and on msn. I think he is really fit and he is really funny. I think i love him i have really strong feelings for him and i cant stop thinking about him, it makes me really emotional at times because i like him so much. I dont know what to do to be right please help me
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reader, LISAG +, writes (19 December 2006):
 I would imagine that you are experiencing "lust" at this moment in time rather than "love". Take more time to get to know him. Do not tell him you think you love him ! Wait for him to reveal any feelings first or you could blow it. You don't know what he's thinking or feeling and you are both very young. You don't want to blow it and scare him off by being all gushing and emotional too soon. Take your time with him, don't be easy to get in any respect, boys will wait and spend time to get to know you if they really like you. Yes they will usually always push for sex quickly and if you give it up quickly then some boys will have got what they wanted and move on to the next. I'm not saying this is what he would do but you must remember that boys respect and have stronger feelings for girls who hold out and are hard to get - it makes the chase all the more fun for boys! If he loses interest because you do get closer and yet you don't give him sex then you will find out the dignified way how much he was really interested in you rather than just sex. You can never tell if boys are after just sex unless you play this game of "hard to get". Even then you can get disappointed! Play it cool - boys love the chase!
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reader, LttleBadMonkey12 +, writes (19 December 2006):
 Don't let something like this get you so emotional.If your just getting to know this guy give it some time.After some time you decide you really do love this guy take a chance and ask him out(if he hasn't asked you out already) maybe he feels the same way about you but is just to afraid to let you know.My advice for know:keep it as a cool friendship and keep getting to know him and you'll come to find that maybe he is your true love.
Good Luck!!
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