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writes: Hi I'm 21 years old, and I masturbate almost every day. I don't have a boyfriend, but it seems like I am always horny. A couple of guys I have dated don't want to be with me because they say I'm "too much" in the sex department. What gives? I never pressure them or anything like that, if I'm in the mood and they aren't, I take care of things by myself. This one boyfriend I had used to joke about me being a sex addict, but I really believe that it's not that big of a deal. I've only been with 6 men in my life sexually, and of those I only had actual intercourse with 4. So what's wrong with me? Is there something I should be changing about myself? I don't dress provacatively and am a good person otherwise; I just can't seem to keep guys interested, and they ALL say it's because im too much in bed. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2006): nono.. nothing wrong by wanting sex!! we all want..you could try make your boyfriend safe about this,, that might help you..Dr. Kolc
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (3 February 2006):
 Alot of guys would love to have a GF like you. Although you have a high sex drive it obviously doesn't control your behaviour to the point where you pressure them. I think what you are dealing with in all honesty is your ex's insecurities which you can't really do alot about.
There really is nothing wrong with you. Seems to me you have a healthy sex drive that is all and that your ex's maybe feel a little intimidated about that. Sorry I couldn't be more help.
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (2 February 2006):
 Out there, indeed on this very site, there are guys that are highly sexed, just like you. In fact many of those same sex-guys are with women whose libido is less than theirs, resulting in a mis-match. The ideal scenario would be for those girls to hook up with your exes, and for you to hook up with them. Hey, this site should start a partner-swap section!
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