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writes: im 18 and haven't done anything but kissed, i've met this fab guy but he's 24. he's so much more experienced im scared that i won't know what to do and it'll be really embarassing. what do i do, will he laugh Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2006): i also was an 18 yr old virgin when i met the man i wanted to be with i was scared too my advice do it when you are ready he won't laugh,if he cares for you it will mean the world to him that you chose him to share this special experience with!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2006): Wonderful advice from the other Aunts on this page and I agree with them. Please remember one crucial thing...sharing your body is an intimate and private moment reserved for the the person who accepts and loves all of you. Therefore, I would not worry about your inexperience. If you and this guy, build your relationship to the point where there is a loving bond, there is respect and he is devoted to you...I can assure you...your lack of sexual experience will not mean 'a hill of beans' to him. Because he will be making love to the essence of who "you are' and appreciating what you are giving him...not treating your body like a sperm depository for only his needs. Just go slow and make sure he is a fine quality young man who will value your body and heart enough to treat you the way you deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2006): Most people has been in your situation so your not alone speaking from expierence i have been in your shoes i too was worried as when i met somebody i havent even kissed let alone anything else and it all came naturally to me.He made the guidance fun and never forced me too do what i didnt feel comfortable with we took it one step at a time and that made it more special.If this guy thinks a lot of you he will be respectable with the situation and you and he will let you do what ever you feel comfortable with.If he starts to force the situation and tries to hurry you along then think twice about what you are doing.GOOD LUCK :-)
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reader, *dreamer* +, writes (12 May 2006):
 hiya,
well i was in the exact same situation a couple of years ago and so was some of my friends, i know for a fact that he will not laugh at you, everyone has there fist time!! Maybe its better that you havent done anything with a boy until this guy, he will feel special if u just tell him, and if u actually want to do these things, he should be more than happy to teach u a few things, this is nothin to worry about at all, it happends to every single girl when its there first time, this guy should love it that he is first, that hes the special one!!! And teaching you things would make things way more fun!!!
Just go and do what u feel comfterable with doing, dont do anything you dont want to do, because no 1 is going to force you!!
good luck and keep me posted on how is goes!!!
*dreamer* xxx
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