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I'm in love with two men and I don't know what to do! Help!

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Question - (27 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2008)
A female Nigeria age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i dont know what to do i am in love with two men for different reasons. one is my husband the other is my ex.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008):

Go with whoever listens to your needs and respects you for who you are and truly loves you for the person you are. Also for the man who can encourage you to do what ever you want to do in life. Im not sure if your in a relationship with either of them or you want to try, so if you are, ask them the question "why do you love me?" and see what the reply is. Ask yourself what you like about yourself and see if they can see those great trates in you as well that way youll know he is in tune with you. Im in an unhappy marriage because my husband has never taken me out or pays me any attention and has never respected anything I wanted to do. He never really listened to me when I spoke he just pretended. He has held me back and its gone stale even though he has been told of the solution. I wish you every happiness.

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (30 May 2008):

mimisoph3 agony auntwoooww i think you should follow your heart NOT your mind.sometimes its hard to know which is which but find out with who you have in common more.and listen to your heart if you listen to that little voice in your head then your going to choose the wrong person.and if you make a mistake you might not get a second chance unless they are both deeply in love with you

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A female reader, Showstopper United States +, writes (27 May 2008):

tell me your reason for both of your lovers. you are married why do you still love your ex? do you have kids by your ex? Tell me more

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