A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Every summer our family went to my grandma's place. I met my 2nd cousin there. We are not so close but I'm fallin' for him, I don't know why.. No one knows what I feel for him only me.. Then one day me and my mom went there to have a vacation. Then my 2nd cousin was there!! We talked and he told that he loves me. And he asked me to be his girlfriend and I accept it because I also loved him. When we went back to the city I was so sad coz I really miss him. Then my 1st cousin text me that she already knew everything because she saw my 2nd cousin crying in his room and she asked him what happened. I was afraid that our family know about that!! I'm so confused if I will break up with him but I can't because I loved him!! What should I do? Do I have to break him up or will we continue our relationship? Please help me what should I do?!!
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reader, strawberries  +, writes (15 August 2007):
This is not a descision you should make by yourself. If you really love each other than you nned to discuss this with each other.
Ending a relationship because of fear of social stigma is a really bad idea. If that were the case there would be no such thing as a gay couple. We live in an era where we except the decisions other people make and try not to judge.
I personally don't have a problem with anyone dating a second cousin, mostly because I barely know them, and I think you'd be suprised how many people feel the same way.
Hope this helps
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