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36-40,
anonymous
writes:currently me and my ex boyrfriend, who i have known for three years, have been seeing each other since the summer. We worked together in the summer and we were just friends. As the summer went on, we ended up having relations. The only thing is that he has a pregnant girlfriend. When we began messing around it was not as serious. Towards the end of summer he told me he loved me and i feel the same towards him. Ive always felt something for him. Now that i am back in school we still talk and he tells me that he cant stop thinking about me and misses me and wants to see me. I do love him. But i dont know what to do because he has a pregnant girlfriend living with him. I would not ask him to leave her. Just that i want to be with him and i love him. I really dont want to give my hopes up and wait if he leaves her or not. i really just do not know what to do anymore.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2010):
Walk away. You're being used, and when it comes out that you're seeing a man who has a pregnant girlfriend, you'll not ever find a decent man in your life, and your friends will run from you. He doesn't love you at all. He's just using you. He wont' leave his girlfriend, because she's having his baby. But he will continue to use you until the day you wake up and realize you've wasted your life. A decent man wouldn't do this to a pregnant woman. And perhaps the time has come for you to look at yourself, because for you to be seeing a man who's got a pregnant girlfriend shows you up a bit.
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