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writes:Am a young lady who is 20 years of age i meet a guy who is 50 years of age he have two kids ,we have being together for few month and i really love this guy ,he want us to get married , and i don't no how to brake the news to my parents what should i do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): I feel that a few months is really too short to decide whether he is the right guy to marry, irregardless of his age, especially since you're 20, where every moment seems more intense, and every feeling just feels right. IF your guy really loves you, he will wait to marry you, and in a way, I feel that at his age, with his life experience, he should be understanding of your dilemma.
But do consider, you love him now, you may love him forever, but you will spend time looking after him. He's still in his prime at 50, but in 10 years, he will slow down and you're still 30. I'm just suggesting you consider the future. I'm 36 and in love with a 55 yr old. I know if we end up together, it's alot of work on my part too. His emotional needs will be vastly different from your own.
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reader, Rocky angel  +, writes (17 May 2012):
You are inlove now and think negative to all those who will tell you to get out of this system.. But as friendly advice, you can enjoy your time with him right now, dont get pregnant, dont get married just have fun... Later you will realise this is not the life you are looking for... Good luck anyway...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): Oh goodness! I'm 28 and want to marry a 45 year old man with two kids. I told my parents and all hell broke lose. I wish I could ask you to forget him and move on because it's an obviously unsuitable match but that would be hypocrisy on my part. Needless to say, this will not be acceptable to your family and you may have to fight it out all alone, and lose your family's support. Therefore be extra sure of this man before you commit. A few months is JUST NOT ENOUGH!
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