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writes:I got somewhat of a problem with talking to girls. when I was young i didnt have a problem but as i got older i started to become shy with girls. Most of the girls in my class know who i am but dont really talk to me. Im asking for some advice on how to start good convos with them. can someone help because im in high school and theres not much time left in my years at this school??
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): Dear Poster
I think you might just be a little shy and feel uncomfortable to talk to them, but do remember girls are human beings just like you; they will probably enjoy talking to you; you don't need to fuss about them or make a big deal out of talking to them; just chat to them as if you would be talking to any of your mates; talk to them about something that happened in class or ask them about a home work assignment; that might break the ice and open the door for some chatting about movies or music or what ever.
Just forget that you are talking to a girl. Just see them as friends and keep the conversation very light hearted.
Once you get going you might end up being the Casinova of the school.
Lift your chin up and be positive about yourself.
Oh and always keep SMILING at them.
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