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I'm in a relationship but don't feel anything for him physically but I don't want to dump him as it would hurt his feelings

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Question - (11 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom, *at14 writes:

Im 15 im in a relationship with this guy. He's really nice and probably one of the sweetest guys i've met. We are quite open with each other and i feel i can tell him anything.

However i've started to feel like something is missing. After much thought i think it may be the fact that he isnt my usual type and im not really attracted to him physically. I feel really bad and i know this makes me seem really shallow. I talked to a mate about it and she said a relationship cant work without physical attraction is this true?

He's really sweet and i dont wanna hurt his feels now or in the long run. What should i do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007):

hey im one of those guys that have been shy and afraid to make a move on a girl i think u should just give him time. he will make a move on u one day

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntRelationships can work without physical attraction if you try very hard to make yourself believe that the attraction is there but to be honest it's too much like hard work. What would be better is to realise that maybe you're not meant to be with this guy and set him free so that you both have the chance of finding someone else who means more to you.

CD

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