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30-35,
*uliaash123
writes:Ok well I have posted a lot about a guy and its been over for a while now but I met this really good guy and he treats me like I deserve but I still feel that I really was in love with the last one. And real love doesn't come every day. I'm not feeling anything towards this good guy. What do I do? I'm scared to death I will never fall in love again and if I do to the wong guy. Please help! Where do I go from here?
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reader, theoneyoucancounton...  +, writes (20 November 2009):
 Now heres something i can relate to....
firstly, you will fall in love again, guareented. Give it time. Time is the greatest healer.
Secondly, ask yourself do you have any feelings that could lead to more with this "good guy".
I can tell you honestly you never get over your first love, he always stays with you and he always will but that does not mean that you put your life on hold, it doesnt.
I suggest that you go out with this good guy and have a good time and see if you feel even the slightest thing for him.
and remember you dont start with love, you start with like, so its ok that you dont have strong feelings forthis new guy, it can build with time. Maybe as your heart heals, the new realtionship will too.
Also, if this good guy is as good as you say he is tell him how you feel without hurting him but also say your willing to give you two a try.
Best wishes
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