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I'm going away to school and I am worried about leaving my boyfriend behind!

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Question - (13 August 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2012)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'll be 8hrs away from him and I'm scared that the long distance will break us up. I know how tough it can be from talking with other people about it and I don't want the distance to be the reason a great relationship ends. I've never had someone treat me so well or someone I was so in-sync with. He's extremely caring, funny, and attractive so I know he could find someone better in a heartbeat and I'm worried he will when I'm gone. He's supportive of me going to school and getting my life together and he has high hopes of us lasting but I'm very pessimistic about it. I don't want to give my hopes up. I want him to do what makes him happy no matter what but the thought of losing him makes me feel so anxious and depressed to go. I don't want to go into school with this gloom and doom attitude and obsess over this - inevitably making myself miserable. Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2012):

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thank you for the motivation :) i hope your relationship grows even stronger too!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2012):

I am going throught the same thing. I had to go to college in another city- 9 hours away.

Its really depressing, but if you love him and he loves you, your relationship can survive, and maybe flourish into something great.

Just make sure that he is your first priority and continue to do the little things for him that he loves.

Just be positive.

oh and sexy conversations on the phone can really help in this situation ;)

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