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I'm giving him some space to figure out what he wants; do you think there's still some hope?

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Question - (31 July 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I really miss the guy that I was seeing. We saw each other for 2 months. Something was there- he saw something in me and I saw something in him. It seemed like I was the whole package in his eyes (after dating him, he would always talk to his friends about me and my accomplishments). His ex came back into the picture, and him (I believe) feeling so guilty, he told me that it wasn't fair to the both of us. I was so shocked I never answered him. He tried contacting me. I gave him the option to call- but he didn't (By the way, he ended things through text because he was too chicken to tell me on the phone. I called him before he sent me the terrible text to see if everything was okay and he said he couldn't end things hearing my voice. Honestly, I don't think he wanted to end things. Even when he was seeing her, he still pursued me).

I feel like he's been confused ever since she came back into the picture. I feel like since things were going so great with me and him, he thought things would go great between them. He broke things off with her- I don't know the reason.

I miss him so much- I'm not even angry with him. I haven't contacted him. I feel like he needs to figure things out on his own- so I'm giving him space.

Am I hopeless or do you think there's still some hope?

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