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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love him, we get along really really well. He's my best friend and I feel 100% safe with him.Recently we got into separate colleges (but we still see each other a lot), but we do not study together anymore and we've made new friends. Everything seems ok right? But no, there's this one male friend of mine that is making me feel really uncomfortable and guilty. He calls me and texts me a lot and when I'm with my boyfriend and he always calls me cute and try to make physical contact when we're in class (like hug me or touch me in the face).I do not like that, and neither does my boyfriend (I know he trusts me, but it's an awful situation for him), but beside this behavior of my male friend, he is a fun person to be around and a nice friend - but I don't want anything more than that. How can I make him stop doing this kind of stuff without being rude?I don't want to ruin my relationship with my boyfriend because of all this guilt I'm feeling. Am I being reasonable or not? I don't really want to lose this friend, but I'm starting to think that's the only thing I can do that would make me feel better.
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reader, Beatriceandjohn  +, writes (26 May 2012):
Sometimes you have to be cruel in order to be kind tell your friend he's freaking you out and to stop it... Obviously he ain't respecting u at all... Good luck
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