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writes:im 15 and i have a 16 yr old b/f and he treats me like a queen buys me anything, nd always by my side but he doesnt trust me for what reason idk b/c im never cheated b/c im not that type of person. we been together for 2 yrs now nd im really geting fed up with the "who calling you, the who yu was with, and the im tagging alone so you dont tlk to any dude" but he treats wonderful. nd i dont know if i would find someone like that oh yea lets not forget i love him Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): I think that you really need to evaluate the relationship and find out why he doesn't trust you,maybe you should confront him as he may be feeling this way because he is doing the things he's accusing you of
lack of trust in a relationship is not good, why be with someone that you dont trust?
personally i think trust is everything and can you see yourself 10 years down the line with a boy who still wants to know your every move? That you have to justify yourself to?
yes you may say he treats you like a princess and buys you everything, but love can't be bought, neither can trust so is it really worth it?
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 March 2010):
 I'd advise that you end it as well. His behavior is the type that when he gets older he's really going to cause problems to women he dates. You are too young to be controlled by a guy although it's not condoned at any age. If he doesn't first trust you, then this will not proceed into the relationship you'd deserve to have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): caringguy
i dont think so
he love's you much and want's you to be most happy
but he doesnt know how to do that right way:)
still about trust, im sure he is completely trusting u
but he is so jealous about u
he just want;s you for him self for his big love
even though u should discuss with him that jealousy thing
cause i had it once and i made myself overit cause i felt its hurting others around me
but maybe he needs the person to wakehim up goodluck
and i would say dont let go he is very loving you
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 March 2010):
You're 15! You do not need this hassle from this guy. He buys you all those things not out of love, but out of control. He thinks the more he buys, the more he is entitled to control you. Don't fall for the old 'but he's really so nice' thing. He's not. If he was, he wouldn't be this possessive. Yes, you love him. But love isn't actually enough. There needs to be trust, respect, admiration. There is none of that. All you have is a guy who thinks he can buy you and control you. My advice is that you end it.
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