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*urcielago2
writes:Ok i have a mojor dilemma! Me and a close friend started dating in may 07, short and tall of it, it didnt work out and we split on really good terms after four months! During this time i got to being really friendly with her sister who i also knew from school and who was at the time dating my best mate, although they have also long since split and he is now seeing someone else.Okay heres my problem recently ive really started to like my ex's sister! Lets call her betty lol. Well i can't decide what to do i think she may like me too and other people have been wondering if anything was going on between us! We talk loads and get on really well! Me and my ex, her sister are over each other, or at least i think shes over me! at least we rarely ever speak and she makes no effort to contact me anymore. But i just dont know if its right to ask out betty because shes a good friend and because of the sister situation! But i really want to be more than just friends! Your thoughts and advice on the situation would be great help! Should i just ask her!!
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reader, murcielago2 +, writes (3 January 2008):
murcielago2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply and im sure i am over my ex and really do like her sister. How would u suggest i go about talkin to her though, is it alrite to do this by texting? If i arranged to meet up with her on our own even just to talk it would arouse even more suspision amongst myn and her friends. Plus she would definately have to tell her sister we were meeting up.
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reader, agony_advice +, writes (3 January 2008):
My thoughts on your problem are simply to talk to your ex's sister and explain your feelings and what you're worried about but also add that even if she doesn't feel the same way, you can always remain good friends. However, are you simply sure that you like her or that the contact you still have with her is to get close to your ex or to be reminded of her by the sister (betty). You have to remember that life is too short to pass an opportunity up and it may be worth while in having a conversation about your feelings, and although you may want that fish, there are plenty more in the sea. Good Luck!!
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