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I'm falling for her, but she has an LDR with a guy in basic

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Question - (15 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2011)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so I'm a senior in high school, and I'm starting to fall in love with this girl who's also the same age. I'm pickin' up some good vibes coming my way from her, but nothing definite. However, she has a boyfriend - two years older than her and in Air Force basic training. She hasn't talked to him since July due to crazy armed forces regulations about letters only.

My question is, should I go for it anyway? The thought of some guy in basic training getting cheated on/broken up with sort of kills me inside, but it is a long distance relationship, and it's going to stay long distance for the next couple of years. And again, either I'm having extremely wishful thinking or I'm picking up dem good vibes.

Advice?

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A female reader, adamantine Australia +, writes (15 September 2011):

adamantine agony auntAlso I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate your advances considering you know the situation she's in, and are going to try and go for it anyway. Her boyfriend probably means the world to her.

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A female reader, adamantine Australia +, writes (15 September 2011):

adamantine agony auntNo, you shouldn't go for it. Why? Because she's in a relationship. Doesn't matter whether its long distance or not, she is unavailable.

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