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*odishMe24
writes: I recently starting dating a man that is twice my age. Even more of a problem is that he is my high school teacher! The whole situation is really bizarre, but despite everything we get along very well and maybe I am being a bit naive but i think there might be some kind of a future with us. Help please,I need any advice i can get on the matter.
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady  +, writes (6 June 2009):
I'd need more information about circumstances.
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reader, Chudzie +, writes (1 July 2008):
Hey there,
its ok. talk about young love a. listen this matter is very wrong thins job is now at risk because of this. There will be no more of longer relationship as, one of u needs to more school he needs to leave his job or u move school! untill u r 19 (yes 19) u really cant have a relationship)
i am sorry but it is the truth i no it hurt expecially when u r inlove u tend to listen to something tht is wrong but feels right to u! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): You're lucky I wish I was dating my sexy geography teacher, I fancy him so much. I know there will never be an us. I am 15 he is about 30ish, but he treats me real nice. A few girls have been saying that he fancys me, because he is always smiling and joking with me. He always asks me to do every thing for him, and I sometimes catch him staring at me. But lately I am going crazy about him. If I see him chattin 2 another gurl, I get very jealous. I will make an excuse in class just 2 walk past his classrooom, and hoping he is looking out the door. And if he is, I will just go in and talk 2 him. It is so amazing, I love him so much but there will never be us
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reader, Mystic Moo +, writes (29 April 2007):
 To Phoebe Halliwell: Actually the teacher isn't always going to be twice as old as the pupil. The maths is all wrong.
Anyway, to ModishMe24: Do whatever you feel is right. The teacher could get into trouble if anyone found out but if two people love each other, wouldn't it be cruel to stop them from seeing each other? Perhaps keeping quiet until one of you has left is ideal but follow your heart.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Woah!
Happy that you found someone but it's AGAINST THE LAW to even hold hands or hug or kiss your teacher. If someone found out you were dating you could both get in serious trouble. Does this mean you're only 12? There is a 99.999% chance of failure in a relationship like this one. Think about it, When He'll be 90, you'll only be 45! He could loose his job if anyone found out, which then means you could probably date without getting into trouble but that's not the point here.
Teachers are off limits! Good Luck and Lsiten to your heart and instincts, what are they telling you to do?
All The best
Phoebe xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2006): well i've read about some teacher pupil relationships and have only heard about one working out. there this girl she left who began a relationship with her teacher, she left school at 16 to be with him. he got in trouble wtih the police and now they have a baby. so sometimes they work but more often then not there destion to fail.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2006): Relationships need at least one partner to be mature and responsible; in your case, it has to be you. Terminate this relationship at once.
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reader, cfliberal +, writes (2 April 2006):
It's possible but not probable. The only times I've seen teacher-student romantic relationships work is in college (with a returning adult student). If you are under the age of consent, what your teacher is doing is illegal at worst and unethical at best. Teacher-student entanglements are discouraged because of the imbalance of power and the fact that this person is grading you.
If you really think it's true love, wait until you graduate and then pursue it. But to do so now is to invite trouble for both of you.
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