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*dviceneeded01
writes:Hi,I came on here a few months ago, because my girlfreind dumped me after her dad got into a tragic accident and was left very badly hurt and needing help 24/7. It has been 4.5 months since the split, and we have recently been meeting up again. We have met up 3 times and on each occasion we have ended with a passionate kiss. She initaiated it twice! My question is, when we meet up things are so natural and the connection is there, but when we leave we dont really text much, can go for a day with out a word. She rarely contacts me first, but sometimes does, and i feel a bit like its a game and we avoid eachother, which i dont understand? Also, I know we have only met up 3 times but is it strange that we havent slept together? because we are ex's and had that relationship before? I am hoping i am just reading too much into everything because i want her back so bad, but if anyone has any ideas on this it would be nice to hear. As i said we broke up through the stress and worry and grieving of her dad, none of us ever did anything wrong, and we had a really strong relationship before, we also have another "date" on wednesday to the cinema..
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reader, alien invasion  +, writes (29 July 2013):
 *sighto be honest, as time goes by, think about what you truly deserve. think about it, seriously.you should really talk to her about how you feel about you two and make it clear about what you want from your guys' relationship. if she can't give you that, then you need to stop cause it seems like it's making you feel bad.
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reader, adviceneeded01 +, writes (22 July 2013):
adviceneeded01 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry i only just looked at my question hoping to post it again to see if anyone else might answer and i saw your reply.. i totally agree, i dont understand how 2 people so in love just make things complicated and horrible, its clear when you love eachother, i dont see the point of the games, like i feel she is doing with the whole not texting me, we have the most amazing evenings together, yet seem to avoid eachother after with no messages, and nothing that flows, i dont know whether to try and wait for her to text me and play a bit hard to get, or just text her! so confusing!!!! :(
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reader, alien invasion +, writes (21 July 2013):
my situation is still in the works. it's been really hard and i'm not sure what's going on anymore...i think at this point we just need time and space from each other because it seems as though every time we talk now it just gets out of hand because we are both very emotional about the situation. even though he likes to say he's doing fine.
we were seeing each other a few weeks ago and it was very lovely, but then one thing lead to another and everything is all messed up again. my situation is quite different though, him and i have a really big history of problems and this and that and i don't even know anymore. i'm not sure why everything is so complicated when two people truly love one another. you know?
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reader, adviceneeded01 +, writes (20 July 2013):
adviceneeded01 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you alien invasion, do you mind me asking if everything worked out well for you in the end?
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reader, alien invasion +, writes (20 July 2013):
i would just take things slow. it's confusing at first but i reckon if it all works out in due time, it was meant to be and your true feelings and connection will come full throttle.
i went through something similar, and my best advice is to just take things as they come and don't rush anything. do what makes sense to you.
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