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writes:So i have been in a relationship with this girl for 2.5 years. I thought we were doing great and was going to ask her to marry me soon. Anyway after school i was moving back home which is three hours away so that i could pay off some debt. WE both agreed it would be best to take a break for a while until i get my little bit of debt taken care of. WE are still good friends and she is the most trust worthy person i have ever met. She says she needs some time to focus on school and think about what she wants. She said that towards the end of our relationship it didn't feel right. Its all my fault because i was lazy and when she asked me to do things i would get pissed she inconvenienced me. Just over all i did stupid things but not enough to ruin a second chance. I tell her i want back and all she says is i need time and i cant promise how i will feel in the future. I can tell she still cares but i just don't want to lose her. I would never be able to forgive myself if i didn't get a chance to prove to her i can do better. I know things would work if she would give me a try. I tell her this and all she says is I'm not looking for a relationship right now. What do i do?
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reader, OptamisticGuy +, writes (25 October 2008):
OptamisticGuy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to add about the top. I recently started to not talk to her about us anymore and she seems happier but she doesn't seem like she wants to get back together. Sometimes she will go all day without calling me and only call me at night? Am i being do needy to expect at least a text or call in the morning? Some people are telling me to not call her for a couple days and be busy so that she will miss me. Does that really work or will she just not care?
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