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writes:My boyfriend and I were on his couch making out the other night. Long story short, he did me a *favor*, and when I tried to return it, he said "Not tonight" and told me that I could be "in debt" to him.I found this very odd. We were in the heat of the moment and everything was going good...why do you think he would refuse to let me give him anything? I can understand if we're just watching TV, i shove my hand down his pants and he says "No," but when we're actually being sexual, it struck me as weird that he would reject me like that.Has this happened to anyone else? Guys, why do you think that could be? I'm confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): In my opinion there could be several different reasons. dont assume he doesnt like you and thus he doesnt want you to do it. if he does you any "favors" he must like you ;) as for the several reasons, it could be that someone may come home soon, he feels insecure with himself in awkward ways like you only doing him a favor. I, myself, have said no before. And only rarely... (heh heh) He could have came soon before and knows he will either take forever to climax or feel pain from the process. Try this one out, Ask him :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): hiya
dont worry bout it my bf does that one minute he is all over me and the day after wen i try ti iniciate sex that he says no e makes an excuse that e is watching the tele but i know that e still wants me... e does want u so dont think anything diff k men can be like that dont take it to heart
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