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writes:Okay, my man broke up with me around 2-3 months ago. I was going through some bad times and it freaked him out. He said that he doesn't know what happened, that he just wanted it to end. Anyways, we talked the other day about the break up (ran into each other). I told him that he never gave me a fair chance. He said to give him a few days to think about some things and that he will call me. I said okay. Than he even called me back later that night and left a message stating that he was checking on me. What the hell do you think this means??????????? Nothing??
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): I think you have opened the door to getting back together by telling him that he did not give you a fair chance. I don't know what really happened to cause a break up, from your point of view it was unwarranted because you were going through a bad time and he deserted you.
Is it possible that you refused his support and were very hard to be around or argumentative or something? Perhaps you needed to make some changes, and if you have made those changes then tell him about that. Let him call you next though, it sounds like your talk got through to him, but if he ditched you for no reason at all, proceed with caution and demand his respect, don't let him weedle his way back in and take to neglecting you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): Time will tell- you made your point now let him come after you. Don't call him back- if he is interested he will make an effort to contact you again. You were going through a bad time and he broke up with you? aren't you supposed to stick with each other during bad times? what happens when the next bad thing happens? you deserve better.
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reader, jabey  +, writes (29 January 2007):
think it means something. By seeing you and talking to you, it provoked him into some thought. And good that you werent around to answer his call. I expect in a few days if not less he will contact you again. If you want him back, and he is worth it. See if he suggests meeting up, if not why not suggest meeting up for a drink. If he wants to re kindle anything you will soon find out. Leave him to contact you again as Im sure he will. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): dont even think about going back to THAT guy. he dumped you for no reason. i wouldint to that move, tell him you dont need him enymore. the dumped becomes the dumper
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