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writes:Hi Everyone. If it's ok, I need advice on a relationship I have been having. I am 14 years-old and a freshman in highschool. Basically, somehow now I have a relationship with my 25 year-old science teacher. I'm not complaining though because I have feelings for her and we both love eachother (We are both female). I think it started when I've been having a hard time at my other classes, especially at math, and I always stayed afterschool for a little over and hour or so for her help (It's my last class for the day so I just waited till everyone left). One day, I felt so hopeless that I cried on her shoulders and she comforted me so much that I kissed accidently kissed her. After that, we loved eachother ever since. Recently, I've had really bad grades, again especially at math, and I always go to her classroom for help instead of my math teacher. Also, my math and other teachers wouldn't stay for over an hour just to spend time with me and help. With her, she really cares and doesn't take advantage of me, and thats why I love her.However, I sort of yelled at her because my continued math tests scores were so low. I left angry and then when I got home, I felt extremely horrible. When I got back the next day, I tried to apoligize and even tried to kiss her. When she said she didn't feel like that doing that in that day, I felt like crying. Then, the next day I found that there was a subsitute and he said she was going to teach in the morning but suddenly left after she realized a sudden "family issue". 2 more days with the subsiture, I realized how much I missed her and almost cried during class. I didn't even feel comfortable asking her if I could go to her house for schoolwork help (That's what I told my mom).She is the person I always hugged and be kissed by and I feel like she is ignoring me. It's probably my fault, but it's been 7 days since and she still is quiet around me. What should I do? I'm so confused and I love her so much. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): ok, i too am a 14 year old high school freshman. and i got a serous new flash for you, one teacher student realtionship, ewwwww, two a 14 yr old deos not need to be with a 25 yr old, grosss. you need to get as far away from her as you can. like seroiously. you dont really love her your only 14 you may really really like her, buit next week you culd really really like someone else. you love her like i love my cell phone, i always feel like i need it and when its not next to me i feel like a peice of my heart is missing, but i could live w/out it and could easily find a new one. so for real you need to do one thing, get as far way as you can!!!
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Hi RCN
As you may know the law in UK, states that a person under 16 is classed as a minor, over 16 is classed as an adult,what are the law in the same subject in USA or is it a state by state laws, it is to do with a private question i recieved, can you please help or advise me.
Thank you
David
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 November 2007):
 She may see this as her making a mistake, which I would agree. Do you know what would happen if this relationship got out? If you loved her, don't continue wanting her. She can go to prison, and permanently loose her license to teach.
If you love her so much, you'd stay away, so she's protected, and can keep the job she went to college for and spent thousands of dollars to get. If you choose not to than it's only infatuation and not love, because love puts other peoples needs in front of your own desire.
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