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writes:Hi, im a little freaked out at the moment, im possibly over reacting but its something thats really stuck in my head. I was out with afew friends, eventually we all gradually went home. I was walking home with a friend of mine who i dont talk to that often, that may sound weird as we see each other regularly but he just doesnt speak to me like the rest and is kind of negative with me, not in a harash way but im starting to realise maybe he doesnt care as he;d make more effort with someone he didnt know. The situation goes, we were walking and he was on the phone to this girl (who is nothing but a friend, she has a bf), he was going to go meet her. Thing was on the phone, she asked if i was with him and he said yeah. I dont know who she is or anything! She didnt ask if anyone else was with him, just me. He says i bet you know her and so i asked who she was but he wouldnt say. But why!!! I dont know her at all, I;ve got an idea who it is and i don;t know her in the slightest! but he just wouldnt tell me who it was or anything, everytime i asked he just wouldn't answer and said he cant tell me. IF i know her then whats the problems with me knowing?I found it so strange and it creeped me out because why would someone i dont even know be asking if i'm with him? just me..no one else. Why are his mates aware of who i am?I've also noticed a few strange things. Just like other people he doesnt like people having his phone, understandable he will just playfully get it back, however when i do it he gets very defensive and serious, he doesnt snap but as if to say "seriously no dont" He just wont tell me, i know they are just friends and everything, not that that matters i just cant see why she would ask if she doesnt know me? And why it should matter. Its as if hes been talking about me behind my back and i dont think its good. Any ideas to what it could be? then i might have a better idea of what to say to him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): That is a bit weird. Could be for all sorts of reasons. Form your description, yes, he could be talking to you behind your back, he could equally likely have a crush on you. Or he could have just sent a text message to her saying he was walking with you. could be any number of reasons.To be honest, the guy himself sounds weird. As much as you are curious and worried that he may not be saying nice things about you, I would seriously just stay away from the guy. And if he brings it up just be honest and say that you found the situation a bit weird and that you arent interested in playing games. You can say it nicely, just telling him how it is. It doesnt have to make it weird with your bunch of friends either. I wouldnt bother trying to get an answer out of him. If he wouldnt tell you straight away, then obviously the secrecy makes him feel important. Dont play into it. He'll grow up eventually.
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