A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm 30 and good looking but I'm clueless when it comes to being hit on. I have no idea when men are looking at me and how to react if i do, usually I just look immediately in a different direction. I would say im on the reserved side and i dont normally smile at strangers or strike up a conversation with men i dont know. Might be because of how i was raised, idk. But i'd like to change that. i'm outgoing and laugh a lot with my friends but i always keep it to my friends, i don't try to see what's going on at the next table or somewhere else in the bar. I just stay very, maybe too, involved in our conversation. But people with me have told me when a guy was looking at me intensely or even turned around to check me out. I guess it happens a lot but i have no clue! I don't even see it. How can i become more aware of that? And how should i behave when i see someone looking at me, even if it's just when we cross path? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 June 2012):
 Well if I noticed someone looking at me I wouldn't make a move on it. But if someone came over and started a conversation with me then yes I would be open and friendly back to them and get to know them. At the end off the day you are not going to notice someone looking at you unless they have caught your attention. If it is a man you are looking for then don't expect them to come to you. When you are out have a look around see if there is anybody there that catches your eye and just simply smile and say hello to them and see if they respond. On nights out or when the opportunity arises get yourself in to the habit of smiling and saying hello to people it will help a lot. Good luck.
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