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writes:well once all my freinds and my cousins who live not that far we all decided to hang out then i saw my cousin and my best freind flirting it botherd me quite a bit so went to him and asked him whats up with that and he said he was doing it just for some harmless fun so i went to go asked my freind if she likes likes him and she said she really likes him and my cousin was just doing it for some harmless fun so i told my freind the truth and she just said i was lying and some other things im not sure if i can say on the internet so i bring my cousin to tell her and guesss what he says nothing! so like what should i do my freind is mad at me cuz she thinks that i was trying to keep them apart now there together and i know my cousin shes just using her what the heck should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): well now all you can do is wait and see what happens
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (21 August 2008):
 The only thing you could do is wait around for this relationship to end.
You already gave your friend a warning and she decided to done deaf ears, so no matter how much you want to prevent your friend from future pain, she won't listen to you at all. So go up to your friend and ask her for forgiveness about you trying to interfere with their relationship. Even when you know that you meant it for her best interest.
It's better to stay in friendly terms with her so you can be a good shoulder when she goes up to you crying telling you he dumped her. Also, when this time comes, DON'T TELL HER "I TOLD YOU SO". This will just make her feel worse and probably deem you a bad friend.
You already warned her and she didn't pay attention, so let her fall on her own and learn this the bad way. Just be there for her when all of this happens.
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