A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend almost 2 years. We are engaged to be married. We get along great and have so much fun together. However, I do not feel he desires me intimately. I have repeatedly told him how I feel, and asked the appropriate questions, but nothing changes. We have sex about once a week and there's never any foreplay. He is not an affectionate person and I very much am. He swears he's still attracted to me, etc. I'm attractive (if i do say so myself, without sounding conceited) educated, well dressed, successful, work out regularly, and am not overweight. I'm at a loss for what to do. I love him dearly, but I am not satisfied with our intimate relationship. I have sexual dreams about other men and know I will never be satisfied unless something changes. I have never been in this situation before. What can I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 August 2012):
 There really is not a lot that you can do. I believe that he probably is attracted to you, it is just the both of you have very different personalities. He is not an affectionate person and doesn't make the effort to please you, I guess that is just who he is, so you need to ask yourself are you willing to marry someone that you don't seem to be compatible with? Because there really is no point in hoping you can change him.
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