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I'm ashamed for people to know that I'm attracted to big women!

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Question - (23 October 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

Over the last couple of years I have been very attracted to big women but havent told anyone about it. Its my deepest secret and I have a huge problem with it. I am attracted to all women but there is just something about a big woman that makes me go crazy. When I see a big woman in public that I am attracted to I am afraid to approach her because I am afraid of what my friends might say. I even look at fat women porn. Any advice?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011):

Big women are S-E-X-Y, you heard? They are the absolute best and I would take a big woman over a thin one any day of the week and 10 times on Sunday. If your friends don't like it then F*** them, they aren't your friends. My friends jag me but they respect it. Don't be embarassed about this. ENJOY it because if you are getting the women you want then that means Mr. Happy is Happy.

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A male reader, Blockie Germany +, writes (14 November 2010):

Blockie agony auntNothing is wrong with liking fat women. I love fat women too. I think big women are sexy. Just ignore what others may think about your preference. Be yourself.

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A female reader, AuntieSnap United Kingdom +, writes (23 October 2010):

Hi sweets,

You have to be true to yourself. The media have a lot to answer to by promoting stick thin models and villifying anyone over a size 8, branding them as as fat. They encourage the public to look down and sneer at anyone who doesnt fit the criteria. Well, the tide appears to be turning, more men and women are comfortable with who they are and the size they are.

You have nothing to be ashamed or embarrased about, remember that.

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (23 October 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntYou have no need to be ashamed. There are worse things to be attracted to. Enjoy being who you are.

I hope that helps.

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A female reader, Battista United Kingdom +, writes (23 October 2010):

You have to decide what is more important: what you like or what your friends like.

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A female reader, smm8792 United States +, writes (23 October 2010):

smm8792 agony aunti suggest you just flat out tell your friends, if their your real friends they will accept you and your feelings towards big women. if you cant be honest and live your life the way you want you'll never be happy. you cant constantly worry about others thoughts because then you wont be able to do what you want or like or be with who you would want to. Just try telling your closest friend first, then proceed to tell the rest. Its your life, just do what makes you the happiest.

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