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writes:So I'm antisocial and my mom wants me to do something about it. I'm 16 and I've lived in the same place for like 8 years and I have some people I talk to at school but not out of it and I really don't mind. I don't have the same interests as anybody here and Idk really what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): Your Mum is worried about you but it is important you develop your own interests and preferences at your own pace in your own way. So... if you are pretty much ok as you are then just be yourself. If you prefer to be on your own, maybe you could still do that within the context of a hobby - for example photography can take you anywhere but you can happily do that on your own.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Honestly, very few people are worth the time. You're better off with a book.
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (4 February 2010):
 If you don't want to be more social, then don't. I don't recommend making more friends because your mother wants you to.
If you do want to be more social for yourself, go out more and be seen. Ask some of the people you talk to about doing something outside of school. Join a club or team.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Tell your mother you are happy being alone, and you would not further discuss anything else with her. Period.
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