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anonymous
writes:I've been dating my bf for two months. but he has to move out of state. you see, he's been getting threats from this punk at school so he's moving in with his grandpa for the year. anyways, I miss him so much! I live with a my mom but shes always at work and I get a lot of crap from people at school because they think I've done some things that I didnt but my bf has been there for me when my mom couldnt be. and I just dont know what to do. hes myo nly friend and now hes gone.i cry all the time. what can i do??
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reader, dirtball +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Even if this is your bff, it doesn't change the fact that the world keeps turning. Keeping in touch with him is definitely not out of the question. However it usually just ends prolonging the agony you both feel.
Redirect that energy. You said you don't have any friends. Find a hobby or join a club. That way you can meet people who share your interests. You can make new friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010): I disagree with dirtball. it sounds like this guy's more than just her two month boyfriend! it sounds like he's her bff and such. it sounds like they've known each other for a lot longer... it seems to me that she's losing her bff, her only friend, and her bf all in one day. I would say stay in touch! email, phone calls, and letters! maybe visit once in a while... and do some activities to meet new friends
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 August 2010):
Two months is nothing. You'll get over it. It hurts now, and it will for a little while, but before you know it, it will be ok. It really sucks when we lose the ones we love, be it through a move, a break up, death, etc. Time will heal.
My suggestion is to find an outlet for your energy. Instead of dwelling on your negative emotions, find something you like doing and do it. Maybe take up bike riding, or painting, or an instrument. There are lots of things out there for you to do, that you don't need others for. The more you dwell on these negative feelings, the worse they will get. Life is what you make it to be. Be a strong person.
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