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writes: Maybe this is stupid, but I just can't seem to let go of him. We have so many issues, and yet I'm worried I'll never share anything special with anyone like I did with him again.How can you will yourself to believe you will find better after the first boyfriend? It doesnt seem like I will ever meet or like anyone again. I'm afraid I will regret losing him forever. Reply to this Question
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reader, Abella  +, writes (2 March 2011):
 You don't have to believe me.
But i do want to tell you that I am 100 percent cast iron confident and certain that you will find a new love and several others who will provide you with enjoyable times and amongst them all will be the joyous love that will grow, which you will discover with someone you (perhaps) have not met, a great love who will become your loving life partner who will also be your best friend, confidant, lover. That connection will surpass your first love (unbelievable for you to envisage at the moment?) and if you are very lucky there will also be wonderful children.
It seems tough at the moment, but it will get better.
Like I said, you don't have to believe me, but I do know it will happen.
My best wishes to you,
Regards
Abella
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Life is like the ocean waves - the troughs are always followed by a peak, and then another trough appears. But you know after every trough another peak will appear. Some troughs are shallow, some are deep. Some peaks seem to last longer than others. When we least expect it, deep in a deep trough, suddenly we find we are enjoying a peak again.
who will also bring you additional joy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): It can take an awful long time to get over and there is no guarantee you will meet someone who matches him. It all depends on what the issues are over,but if they are minor,try and get back if you feel the way you do. If cheating and deceiving has taken place more than once,certain behaviors that one knew the other would end it for,then its probably really at an end. Time heals,but there is no guarantee you will stop regretting your loss.
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